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Pursuing Child Sponsorship as a Family

Written by guest contributor Jill Foley from Daily Bread.

In 1994 I began sponsoring a little girl in Kenya through Compassion International. Eager to change the world from my dormitory room, I set out to make a difference in Judith’s life.

Very quickly I realized how far my monthly contribution was going and how much this sponsorship was changing Judith’s life and living circumstances. I was very pleased to be making a global impact, but began to realize Judith was not the only one who was being changed.

I wanted to do more, but sponsoring more children at this point in life was not an option. Instead, I became an official volunteer advocate and began talking about Compassion’s ministry to others in hopes of recruiting new sponsors.

The ministry of Compassion International became my personal ministry and for the next 15 years I sponsored children, wrote letters and recruited new sponsors. Also during that time I got married and had two daughters of my own.

Although Compassion has always been a part of our family, it wasn’t until this past year that we made a decision to intentionally pursue and experience sponsorship as a family.

In August of 2010, I had the opportunity to travel to Peru and see the work of Compassion first hand. This was really the first step in opening my family’s eyes to the needs of those living in extreme poverty.

I came home with stories….stories of real people living in another part of the world and in very different circumstances from our own. Through the stories and photographs, these people came to life and we were challenged to take further steps in experiencing sponsorship together. As a home educating family, we decided to take a global approach to our learning.

Incorporating Child Sponsorship in Our Homeschool

In the center of our front room, where we spend most of our time learning, hangs a large world map. We refer to the map almost daily as we talk about the different countries where our sponsored children live.

If you were to walk further through our home, you would see other evidences of the ministry of Compassion and our involvement in almost every room; photographs on the front of the refrigerator, bookshelves and baskets full of books about other countries, collections of letters from our sponsored children in binders, prayer cards with country and family information, even framed Christmas ornaments on our Christmas tree.

Our global awareness and interest has not been limited to where our sponsored children live. Instead, they have served as a springboard for opening up the entire world to us. As we learn more about their country, we become interested in the surrounding countries.

The opportunities for turning sponsorship into a learning experience are endless.

  • Your children can draw pictures and write letters to your sponsored child.
  • There are many international cookbooks available and you can experiment with international cooking, or you can visit local international restaurants.
  • As a family, memorize Scripture about children and the poor.
  • Become an expert on your child’s country.
  • Get books and DVDs from the library and read/watch everything you can get your hands on.
  • After you have learned about where your sponsored child lives, begin learning about the other 25 countries where Compassion works.

Birthday Buddies

Another fun way our family incorporates sponsorship into our lives is by sponsoring children with birthdays similar to ours.

Three of our four family members have “birthday buddies” – children we sponsor who share our birthdays. This gives added meaning to our family celebrations and traditions as well as connects us to our sponsored children in a very special way.

Earlier this year I shifted the focus of my personal advocacy and started a blog called Compassion Family. My hope is that the space encourages others to celebrate, experience and share the joy of sponsorship as a family.

Compassion International is an evangelical Christian child development ministry, working in 26 countries around the world. With a focus on holistic child development, their programs help release children from poverty and enable them to become responsible adults. By working with local church-based organizations, Compassion’s program offers educational opportunities, health care and health-related instruction, supplemental nutrition, life-skills training and opportunities to hear about and respond to the gospel.

Compassion’s ministry, specifically child sponsorship, has greatly impacted our lives as a family. It has shaped us and given us direction in ministry and home education. It is no longer something we do, it has become who we are.
 

{Renee here again. For years we sponsored a child but when she graduated and left the program we stopped monthly sponsorship. In part, because I was tired out from being the only one in our family who did the correspondence etc. Jill's approach, incorporating sponsorship into their homeschool, is very inspiring to me.}

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Fantstic post. We sponsor two

Fantstic post. We sponsor two girls through Plan International. I have been thinking for awhile now it would be great to make our once a week 'letter writing session' sometimes be letters to them, though have been wondering when to start. Well this has given me the 'shove' I need! Thanks for writing it.

Wow....if you sponsor a child

Wow....if you sponsor a child through Compassion, I would love to send you a welcome kit of sorts. It's something I've put together to help people begin their journey. Simply leave me a message over at Compassion Family or email me at fiddlejill(at)yahoo(dot)com and we can work out the details.

I'll happily offer this to anyone who sponsors a child through Compassion this month.

As I was reading through this

As I was reading through this post, I smiled when I read the birthday buddy part. Today happens to be my youngest daughter's bithday, and we are also celebrating the birthday of Lian Lee in Colombia and Josseling in Nicaragua!

Jill- this was a really

Jill- this was a really interesting post. Can you also suggest an organization that doesn't have a Chiristian affliation? I have always chosen to support pure NGOs without religious affiliation since living in Ecuador in 1995-1996. I lived in a mountain village with indigenous woman and was told over and over that it was the Christian NGOs who offered "tied aid"...in other words, "we will give you this product/dig your well/clothe your children, if you come to our church/convert/send your kids to our Christian school, etc."

Having studied International Development before becoming a doctor, I have some first hand experience with religious social justice work. I have seen Christian organizations doing good work with "non-conversion" intentions. I have also found (by doing medical volunteer work overseas over the past 15 years) that many organizations and their volunteers often don't take into account world religions, and the pre-existing faiths many of these families follow. So I would like to hear your thoughts regarding how this organization (although Christian based) works with children who are practicing Muslims, Buddhists or Hindus? Thanks!

I don't have any suggestions

I don't have any suggestions of NGO that don't have religious affiliation. I'm sure there are some, I just don't know of any.

I can answer your question about how Compassion works. Compassion serves children and families regardless of their religious practices. However, Compassion is unashamedly Christian and works through the local church in the communities they serve. Not all children (or their families) in Compassion's program convert to Christianity, but many do.

GREAT post! And what a great

GREAT post! And what a great thing for your family to do together! Thank you for sharing. I've been a sponsor for many years and I am SO blessed by it. I am already planning for my 18 month old grandson to have a Birthday Buddy in the future!

Compassion International has

Compassion International has changed my heart and my life. I wish I had learned of the benefits of sponsorship early on in my home educating career.... as I truly believe sponsorship enhances the global consciousness that our children need to cultivate in order to truly be a contributing member of this world.

As it is, I only started sponsoring 3 and 1/2 years ago. My son was 15 years old and not interested in the correspondence part of Compassion. I was happy that he was at least interested in learning about my children and the worlds they lived in! And Compassion HAS impacted his world view as evidenced by his desire to join Engineers Without Borders when he completes university.

However, the Teacher-Mom part of me wants a small child to sit with and read books, do coloring pages, learn games, etc. from the countries Compassion serves..... Ah well, as least I'll eventually have grandchildren to introduce Compassion to!!!

I strongly urge anyone who is not sponsoring to do so..... Add it to your curriculum as it would be a VERY valuable addition.

And if you do not home school? Compassion is very fulfilling on a personal level as well as a family level. I have never regretted it; even during times of financial crisis!

We started sponsoring through

We started sponsoring through Compassion in June of 2009, with no earthly idea just how much this one act would change our lives.

Very quickly, we saw our perspectives on so many things change. We saw our own lives, our spending and our giving in very different ways.

Sponsoring through Compassion has been a blessing in our homeschooling. Geography and Culture Studies never had much if an appeal to my girls until we had friends in different countries.

Now, as our Compassion family grew from one little girl in Ghana to ten beautiful children around the world, I am so thankful for the faith-step we took on that day in June 2009.

Oh, Jill. I know this isn't

Oh, Jill. I know this isn't about you, but I just want you to know how much I admire the good that you've done and the good that IS you. Thank you for sharing your light, your example with me, and your experiences with myself and all of us here. May God bless you in this wonderful mission you have been called and inspired to perform.

xo

Growing up my family

Growing up my family sponsored (one or two?) young people in India until they were graduated and were able to go on to post-secondary! (Can't remember the name of the program). My parents also "sponsored" a refugee vietnamese family who lived with us for at least a year (a mom, her daughter and new baby - her husband had been killed)and then my parents helped them settle into an apartment and live independantly. Now, with my children, we sponsor two children through World Vision; our first sponsored child, now 15ys, just left the program - we were told that his family is now able to support themselves - bittersweet for us as it feels somehow like loss but of course I also rejoice with them!!! We also send money regularly to help support my husband's family in West Africa. We try to regularly involve our kids in discussions about life in other parts of the world, why we support fair-trade, and so forth. I want it to feel like a normal part of life - aware of and caring about people around the world - aware of how wealthy we are and conscious of how we use our resources - including access to education, our money, our time... My oldest child is now 15 and has been doing more studying about worker's rights and has a new maturity and understanding about these things and now brings me information to discuss :)

We sponsor through World

We sponsor through World Vision (80% of it's donations and funding actually goes to helping people, not in their pockets!) I love this organization. We also give money at Christmas (a large lump sum) instead of giving our kids tons of Christmas presents. They know that they will only get a few small things and that most of the money goes to those in need this time of year. In fact, they save their earnings all year and put a big chunk into the fund themselves. It is amazing how generous they are and they LOVE looking through the catalog and picking what to "give"...be it mosquito nets, bibles, clothing, food, money to help put in a well...the list goes on and on.

Although my expertise lies

Although my expertise lies with Compassion, I highly respect World Vision and the work they do. They are working in some areas where Compassion is not, and their work is equally as important. It's good to hear that 80% of their funding is being used to directly impact the children and work they do. Compassion also strives for this 80% and has actually hit around 83% the past couple years. I love when ministries demonstrate such high financial integrity and stewardship.

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I love the birthday buddies

I love the birthday buddies idea :) So neat.

I sponsered Irene from Kenya this morning and can't wait to get to know her. (I have two other sponser kids, one through World Vision but the other two are both Compassion) as well as 4 Correspondance kiddos. All but the World Vision one have been sponsered over the last couple months so I'm still waiting on that first letter to get to know them better.

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